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MSI Australia firmly believes that everyone has the right to choice and control over their destiny, especially when it comes to their sexual and reproductive health. This extends to the partner with whom you choose to share your life.
To discriminate against so many people in our community based on gender, identity and who they choose to love, is unfair and it is unhealthy.
In a peaceful, tolerant nation such as Australia, we should seek to remove the barriers that divide us. Denying many Australians the right to marry is one such barrier that we can, and should remove immediately.
After all, love is love.
Marriage equality
As families prepare to gather for Christmas, there’s a hidden crisis intensifying behind closed doors: reproductive violence, where someone uses coercion, manipulation, pressure or control to dictate another person’s reproductive choices, is affecting thousands of women and pregnant people across our region.
1 in 3 women globally will experience reproductive coercion in their lifetime, including sabotage of contraception, forced pregnancy, prevention or pressure related to abortion care, and financial or emotional threats linked to reproductive decisions.[1]
In Australia, around 1 in 5 women accessing abortion services report some form of coercion or control from a partner, and frontline counsellors say cases are becoming more complex, particularly during holiday periods when isolation and family pressure escalate.[2]
“Reproductive violence remains largely invisible, but it is happening right now, in homes, relationships, and families across Australia and the world,” said Grishma Bista, CEO, MSI Asia Pacific.
“No one should face abuse, pressure, or control over their reproductive choices. Access to safe, confidential care is essential, especially at a time of year when family dynamics can amplify risk.”
Holiday season increases risk
The end of the year is a peak period for relationship stress, financial pressure, travel, family expectation and isolation from support networks, all factors that increase risk of reproductive violence and reduce access to help.
MSI Australia’s psychosocial team reports a surge in women disclosing lack of control, fear, or pressure from partners in the lead up to Christmas, particularly around continuing or ending a pregnancy.
“We regularly support clients who are frightened, confused, or unsure if what they are experiencing is abuse,” said Alison Fonseca, Psychosocial Health Manager at MSI Australia.
“Reproductive violence can look like sabotaging contraception, hiding medication, pressuring someone to continue or terminate a pregnancy, or threatening to withdraw financial support. It is gendered violence, and it has devastating consequences.”
Regional impact demands regional action
Across the world, reproductive coercion is deeply connected to gender inequality, stigma, economic dependence, and access to health services. In many countries, there are no legal safeguards, limited counselling services, and severe stigma around reproductive healthcare.
“At MSI, we see resilience every day, people finding the courage to seek help, make their own decisions, and protect their future,” Ms Bista said.
“But access to safe pathways must be funded, protected and strengthened.”
Campaign launching: Help us support safety, choice and care
This Christmas, MSI is launching a donation campaign to support people experiencing reproductive violence, here and overseas.
Funds raised will:
- Provide emergency psychosocial support including counselling
- Cover the cost of abortion or contraception care for people facing coercion
- Support local services in countries where reproductive violence is rarely acknowledged
Every donation, large or small, helps someone make a decision free from control, fear and pressure.
“No one should be forced into or out of a pregnancy,” Ms Fonseca said.
“With community support, we can make sure reproductive choices belong to the person, not their partner, not their family, and not their circumstances.”
Key facts
- 1 in 5 Australian women seeking abortion report pressure or coercion related to pregnancy decisions
- Only 12 out of 43 Asia Pacific countries have legislation enshrining the right to choose the number, timing, and spacing of children [3]
- Reproductive violence is one of the least recognised forms of gender-based violence, despite being reported in clinical and counselling settings worldwide [4]
- Family violence is consistently one of the high-recorded months for family violence incidents [5]
[1] World Health Organisation. (2021)
[2] MSI Australia. (2020). Hidden Forces: Shining a light on reproductive coercion white paper
[3] IPPF. (2023). Asia Pacific Contraception Policy Atlas.
[4] Tarzia & McKenzie. (2024). Reproductive coercion and abuse in intimate relationships: Women’s perceptions of perpetrator motivations
[5] Crime Statistics Agency. (2025). Family Incidents
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For more information contact Anna Jabour on 0403 322 992